You've lived a whole life. Now use it.
A workbook for the woman with four decades of material — the careers, the reinventions, the things she survived that never made it to social media — who's ready to stop calling it baggage and start calling it business.
21 pages. Yours in the next 60 seconds.
You've told pieces of it. Never all of it. Never on purpose.
You edit yourself before you open your mouth. You lead with the polished version — the title, the credentials, the safe part — and leave out the years that actually built you.
So people meet a résumé instead of a woman.
And then you watch someone with half your life experience and twice your nerve get the client, the stage, the yes.
It's rarely the story itself. It's what's underneath it: the shame, the self-doubt, the low-grade frustration that keeps you undercharging and over-explaining. That loop has a name, and this workbook makes you name it on paper — because a thing you name loses its grip.
This is not a book you read. It's a book you do.
Grab a pen. Write in the margins. Be honest, even where it's messy. One sitting with your coffee, or spread across a week.
- Where you are. Ten things you want, ten things you're tolerating, and the one fear underneath both.
- You've lived it. The chapters, the hardest thing you survived, what you know now that you didn't at 25. This page is the whole reason the book exists.
- Frame the story. Beginning, middle, bridge, end — the four bones every story that moves people is built on.
- The 60-second version. Written, timed, and out loud, so it's ready the next time someone asks what you do.
- Your WOW statement. I help ______ do ______ by doing ______. Three drafts. Keep the one that sounds like you.
- Find your people. Where they work, shop, live, read, watch — and what they're actually afraid of.
- Your 7-day plan. Seven small reps that move the story off the page and into your mouth.
By the last page you'll know exactly what your story is and exactly how to tell it.
This isn't a freebie. It's the workbook — I'm just not charging you for it.
This is the same framework I've taught from a TEDx stage, in rooms of women who paid to be there, and in my own businesses when I had to build the next thing from nothing but what I'd already been through.
I'm giving it away because I've watched too many women sit on a story worth six figures because nobody ever handed them the pages.
Consider them handed.
SEND ME THE WORKBOOKThis is for you if:
- You're building something at 40, 50, 60 — and you're tired of being told you're late
- You've got the experience but freeze when someone says "so tell me about yourself"
- You're starting over: after the divorce, the layoff, the diagnosis, the last chapter closing
- You've been quietly good at what you do for years and nobody knows it
This isn't for you if:
- You want a script to perform instead of a story to tell
- You want to sound like everybody else
- You're not willing to write the honest version first
I'm Tiffany.
I've built businesses, closed businesses, and built them again. I've told my story from stages all over the world, in front of thousands and across a table at my own café. I run Do The Damn Thing® — a decade-long movement of women who stopped waiting for permission — and Thread Cafecito, where a lot of these conversations actually happen, over coffee.
I don't teach story as a marketing trick. I teach it as the asset it is.
"Your story is the greatest asset you have today to create whatever it is you want. Use it."
The story doesn't tell itself.
Put your name below and I'll send you the workbook. Then go get a pen.
The story doesn't tell itself.
Put your name below and I'll send you the workbook. Then go get a pen.
No spam, no daily nonsense. Real notes from a woman actually building things.